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A Mother’s Day Tribute

LynneMy favorite writer – and oh yes, my childhood sweetheart, and wife of 48 years, and mother of our two children – has just publishedTo the Mothers of the World ~ I Pay You Tribute” on her web site. She honors the mothers of the world. Regardless of differences in language or culture, a mother’s love for her children, regardless of their age, is universal. Thank God.

Women to women
Worlds Apart
We are the same but different

Different culture
Different religion
Different education
Different language

But the same within
Same search for justice
Same search for dignity
Same belief in family values
Same journey to personal fulfillment

Be sure to check out On the Go With Lynne for more great (though I am definitely prejudice) travel writing.

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Sambusi’s Two Tables by Lynne Mayhew

Stone Town, Zanzibar

 

Zanzibar is an island recognized for growing and exporting African spices. With its mysterious alley ways, known for their ornately carved doors, Birka-clad women move silently through the streets while loud speakers call faithful Muslims to prayer. An array of exotic and exciting food tempts the foreign traveler in selecting and savoring the island’s exotic cuisine.

It is evening and Paula has made reservation’s for us to eat at Sambusi’s Two Tables,  located in a private home .We have the address and decide to walk from our hotel, the Dhow Palace, in historic Stone Town. It is dark and we are walking single file along the semi-lit street hardly wide enough for two cars.  Huge arched doorways cast shadows into the street creating a somewhat ominous atmosphere. This reminds me of the honeymoon couple from Norway I met today who told me they were robbed of their money, passports, everything, while at the beach yesterday. Standing on a corner, we check the address and turn toward a residential section. Paula and I comment on the absence of traffic and people. Robert and Ron pause, look around for signs, house numbers, anything, and decide on a route. We are now cutting through yards and wishing we took a cab like the hotel desk clerk recommended we do, but stumble on the correct house only to find the entrance is hidden around the back, something the owner failed to mention. We knock on the door and after a couple of minutes are greeted by a teenager who asks us to come in and leave our shoes inside the door. This we do, and are led upstairs to the living room where a woman is watching TV. She barely smiles, indifferently nods to us while the son leads us on to the enclosed porch with two tables. We are the only ones here this evening, we are told.

It is a long narrow room with jalousie windows overlooking the deserted, dark street. Void of any decorations or pictures on the pale green walls, a ceiling fan hums on low speed, enough to drown out the TV.  Each table has six chairs, a clear plastic tablecloth like our grandmother’s once used, paper napkins and cutlery.

Our host, the father of the house, introduces himself as Salim by saying that he and his wife, Hidaya, prepare the food themselves. He appears in traditional Muslim attire, long shirt over baggy pants, shoeless but wearing a white lace prayer cap. Knowing we would be in a Muslim home, Paula and I were appropriately attired in skirts and shirts with sleeves, our husbands in long pants.  Courteously, in broken English, our host explains there is no menu and we would be served a course at a time. The guide book didn’t mention any of this, but the four of us are always open to adventure and something unique. We are brought bowls with warm water to wash our hands  and warm towels to dry them. He now brings us chapattis to nibble on and fruit drinks made from tamarind. Next, we are brought small bowls of pumpkin soup made with coconut milk and a touch of allspice. We food snobs give this the thumbs up. When Ron asks for more, our host politely reminds him that he must save room for the other dishes. One by one, the courses come, seasoned perfectly with spices grown on the island and prepared with skill and knowledge of age old Persian/Indian/African recipes. The curried chicken and baked fish were excellent.

This, we decide is the way to enjoy a meal. After two hours, we are finished, rewash our hands and get a bill which in American terms is $20.00 a couple. We thank our host, shake hands, find our shoes and announce we don’t have a clue how to get back to our hotel.

He makes a few gestures as to you walk here, turn there, so forth and so forth and we ask him to please call us a cab. Instead, he offers his teenage son to escort us back through the yard and the unlit streets. He takes us a different way, darker and lonelier then the way we thought we knew. We find our steps quickening through the maze of alley ways until we are in the light of our hotel. We bid him goodbye and a thank you with gratitude and relief. Robert offers a tip and he accepts.

Sambusi’s Two Tables. Zanzibar.  Another culinary experience.

Great images of Zanzibar.

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An Artist’s Palette ~ Laos by Lynne Mayhew

We awaken at dawn to the sound of a distant gong. The air is crisp and misty with fog.  From the balcony, we watch as processions of Buddhist monks leave their monasteries and walk through the streets collecting alms from the local people. It is ethereal and surreal to the foreign traveler. To the townspeople of Luang Prabang, Laos, the act of alms giving is a daily ritual that connects the average individual to a spiritually developed person, a Buddhist monk.  It is a symbolic connection. Each is showing respect and humbleness for the other. It is not charity, as one would think.

As the Buddha has stated:

“Householders, the homeless  and  monastics
in mutual dependence
both reach the true Dharma….”

There are Buddhists who are animists. They believe in offering alms on behalf of their deceased ancestors, that they are showing respect to them and the monk is the intermediary in which to do so. We are told that by giving food to the monk, they are feeding their dead loved ones.

Across the street from us are women in their outdoor kitchens who have prepared sticky rice. They sell it by the basket to others who want to participate in this tradition.  This is what is put into the alms bowls as the monks walk by silently. Except for the occasional dog barking or rooster crowing all is quiet and reverent. Men may stand to face a monk, but women must be seated or kneeling to offer their alms. All have their shoes off.

The monks walk barefooted and are wearing the traditional robe that dates 25 centuries ago. The first monks wore robes made from rags as did holy men from India. Later Buddha taught the monks to wear “pure” cloth, which was cloth that was ruined or discarded, cloth soiled from childbirth or scavenged from cremation grounds. This cloth was washed and boiled with vegetable matter- tubers, bark, leaves and spices such as turmeric or saffron giving the cloth a yellow-orange color. Robes today are in these colors as well as shades of curry, cumin and paprika.

Boys as young as ten can enter a monastery for religious training and general education. They too participate in the alms walk. They can remain and become monks or end their studies at any time. Many leave to work and to marry.

Luang Prabang is most known for its religious centeredness, surrounded by its many active Buddhist monasteries (Wats) and temples. The  Luang Prabang derives from a sacred Buddha image called the Pha Bang which was a gift from the mighty Khmer Empire in Cambodia, hence the name Luang Prabang. It is an ancient city located in north central Laos. Surrounded by mountains, it is on a peninsula between the Nam Khan and Mekong Rivers. Until the communist takeover in 1975, it was the royal capital and seat of government of the Kingdom of Laos.  It was designated a UNESCO World Heritage Site in 1995 and is considered by many to represent the heart of Laotian culture. Luang Prabang was made a WHS because it is a well preserved and outstanding example of the blend of traditional Laotian and French European  architecture. It is what drew us to this country, specifically this city.

Ron awakens particularly early one morning and follows a group of monks to a monastery at the end of our street. They are gathering together with numerous monks waiting for a special alms giving procession to begin. Dignitaries from the capital, Vientienne, as well as monks from that city have arrived to walk in this procession. All of Luang Prabang is out to participate or watch this huge and prestigious gathering. Tourists with cameras ready stand by to capture the moment.

Quite an experience for us to watch. We walk back to our small hotel, order breakfast, and sit at one of the three tables outside on the sidewalk. Life returns to normal as bicycle and moped traffic pick up. Off in the distance we hear gongs and in the building behind us, we notice monks gathering for a special house blessing. They are chanting. We are eating and we too feel blessed.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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An Artist’s Palette ~ Cambodia (part 3) by Lynne Mayhew

Fishing Village

Fishing Village (click to enlarge)

In addition to temples, visitors have discovered the floating village of Chong Kneas located ten kilometers south of Siem Reap, Cambodia, on the Tonle Sap Lake. The van ride took us past numerous rice paddies with flimsy stilt houses lining both sides of the narrow road. One could not help notice or watch the constant ebb and flow of daily life in the fields, in the houses, under the houses and along the road. So much going on in a relatively small area. The poverty slaps one in the face.

Arriving at the docks, visitors purchase tickets and board boats to ride out to the floating village. Our guide explains that the village contains about a hundred families, mostly Vietnamese. Unwelcome in Cambodia, these people have created a way of living.  The village actually moves around according to the water levels of the lake and the season. It is a self contained floating village with residents engaged in fish farming (raising cat fish) as well as using traditional basket type traps. Men and women can be seen repairing or making fishing nets.  Chickens, hogs, and produce are also raised on these floating buildings. Each house has its covered front or back porch where most of the cooking and daily life takes place. Laundry is hung everywhere.  The village contains general stores, restaurants, and a school with a basketball court. The court is on the upper floor and is made with safety railings and a grille to keep the ball and the children from going overboard. Each family owns a small boat for navigating throughout the floating village to trade or buy from each other.

Child Size Boat

Child Size Boat (click to enlarge)

Children can be seen getting around themselves in anything that can float or be rowed. They are quite adept in showing the tourists the snakes they have, posing for a picture and then demanding a dollar. One of the floating buildings is used as an education center for visitors which have displays explaining the ecosystem, bird and fish life found on the Tonle Sap Lake. Aboard is a sample fish farm where the tourist can throw feed into the large opening on the first floor deck. There is also a crocodile farm below the deck which has at least ten large reptiles. They do not eat them, just show them to tourists. The eco center also has a nice gift shop, snack bar and small restaurant. On the upper floor one can get a better view of this incredible floating village, each house painted in bright colors, most of which are now faded or peeling. The TV antennas become noticeable and music can be heard from a café across the way.  Heading back to the docks, we pass a church and a temple, also part of this floating village.

Wanting $2 and settling for $1

Wanting $2 and settling for $1 (click to enlarge)

General Merchandise

General Merchandise (click to enlarge)

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An Artist’s Palette ~ Cambodia (part 2) by Lynne Mayhew

Angkor Wat

Angkor Wat (click to enlarge)

A traveler or a tourist does not go to Cambodia without visiting the ancient temples of Angkor, located near Siem Reap. This vast empire weaves throughout Indochina, but the royal roads lead to Angkor Wat, now a UN World Heritage Site. Built in the early part of the twelfth century by the ruler Suryavarman II, it is a Hindu temple or wat and is recognizable by its five towers which appear on Cambodia’s national flag. After years of civil war and trauma, the Khmer people once again look to these temples as a source of religious inspiration and pride. Angkor Wat is believed to be the largest religious structure in the world. While London had a population of 50,000 and was building cathedrals during this period, one million people lived in the Angkor kingdom during its height. ( read on….)

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An Artist’s Palette ~ Cambodia (part 1) by Lynne Mayhew

Cambodia Border Crossing

Cambodia Border Crossing - Visa Processing (click to enlarge)

We take the Hang Chau 2 speed boat from Chau Doc on the Mekong River to Phnom
Penn, a five hour trip which includes two border stops along the way. One is to exit
Vietnam and the other is to obtain our tourist visas to enter Cambodia. Both crossings are represented by shades of khaki and green, officers entrusted with the duty of checking passports and visas. I was wary that the stern officials at the Cambodian border would not process my visa since I did not have a separate photo of myself to turn in with my visa application. I stupidly left it in my suitcase stowed on the boat and not in my daypack. I was the last one to get a visa, much to my relief. Another hour by
boat and then, finally, Phnom Penn, capital of Cambodia comes into view with its blend
of old and new: remnants of stately French Colonial buildings in neo-classical style, traditional Khmer palaces and pagodas and added to this are western style skyscrapers competing for space in this growing and bustling city. The afternoon sun castes shadows over this jumble of architecture. As we arrive at the Sisowat pier, most noticeable is the stone-built embankment or esplanade along the waterfront, a city park along the Mekong. It looks inviting and peaceful with its benches, tall trees and landscape of flowers. A perfect spot for a plein air artist to capture the moment on canvas. But it doesn’t take long to discover that with a population of only two million compared to Hanoi’s four million and Saigon’s almost eight million, its traffic and pace is just as frenetic.

Cambodia Presidential Palace Complex

Cambodia Presidential Palace Complex (click to enlarge)

Inching our way through the tangle of vans, motorbikes and cyclo drivers, our guide takes us to the Royal Palace built by King Norodom in 1866. We remove our shoes and enter an ornate Khmer style building used to receive the world’s royalty and ambassadors on state business. Today, it is open to the public. Next to the palace is the official residence of King Sihamoni, Sihanouk’s son. Our guide emphasizes that the king is in residence (which means he is in country) because an official flag is raised. We were told that the elder Sihanouk, age 88, who is referred to as the god-king, is living in China and unofficially is in control of Cambodian politics.

Located adjacent to the Palace is the Silver Pagoda. It gets its name from the 5000
silver tiles covering the floor. Again, we remove our shoes and enter. The silver floor is
roped off from foot traffic. Absolutely no photography allowed, so we just file it in our
memory. In the center of the room is a tremendous standing solid gold Buddha draped in
saffron (orange) colored cloth. Other Buddhas in various positions are placed around the
room. The most common is the one sitting in the meditative or lotus position. Another
Buddha is sitting but has one hand pointed to the earth. It refers to the story of Buddha
(Siddharta Gautama) being tempted by the evil one Mara. Siddhartha tells Mara “as earth
is my witness”, I will not succumb to your temptations and he doesn’t.

Carving on Pagoda Door Frame

Carving on Pagoda Door Frame (click to enlarge)

Our guide does not want us to miss the Wat Phnom Temple located on a hill overlooking the tree-lined avenues. “According to legend, the first pagoda on this site was erected in 1373 to house four statues of Buddha deposited here by the waters of the Mekong River and discovered by Madam Penh. The main entrance to Wat Phnom is by the grand eastern staircase, which is guarded by lions and Naga (mythical serpent) balustrades.” Excerpt from Lonely Planet guide book.

After taking our shoes off and entering the temple we notice many Cambodians lighting incense and praying for their dead ancestors. It is a ritual practiced daily by devout Buddhas.

Outside, our guide, Mao Virak, shares with us his family’s story of living through the Khmer Roughe genocide.

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SE Asia ~ An Artist’s Palette by Lynne Mayhew

In three words I can describe SE Asia. It is an artist’s palette. A profusion of color, shapes, sizes and textures, found in and on the streets and allies of Hanoi, Saigon, Phnom Penn or the endless green paddies of rice ready to be harvested throughout the countryside of Vietnam, Cambodia, and Laos.

Halong Bay

Halong Bay (click to enlarge)

The palette becomes serene, yet surreal as we gently glide through the pristine waters of Halong Bay in a Chinese Junk, made of teak. We are mesmerized by the giant limestone karsts jutting out of the water. Lush, green tropical vegetation cling precariously to the grains of earth that have settled in its crags. Declared a United Nations World Heritage Site in 1994, more than 2000 islands dot the seascape with their wind-carved grottoes while some have caves or a sandy beach.   { read on….}

S E Asia ~ An Artist’s Palette by Lynne Mayhew
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